23 Feb 2013
by caitiecakes
in Life Outside the Goal
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So hey guys! 🙂
Once more I’m back at school. I come here for at least 6 hours a day, 7 days a week… HOW FREAKING SAD IS THAT!?!! Weekends and schooldays are no different- only on weekends I’m not skiving class. I’m like the ultimate rebel nerd. I like it. 😛
So when I came in to the usual classroom just now I found this:
Which is, of course, an illustration of all the main characters in the two fandoms that my girlies want me to join (I’ve already joined the ‘Supernatural’ fandom (on the left), they’ve yet to convince me to watch ‘Merlin’ (on the right), but that’s mainly because I don’t want to fail IB. I’m already worried about my growing addiction to Sam’s… I mean Jared’s beautiful freaking voice I swear to god he’s an angel in disguise he’s so gorgeous and my baby and oh my god and **OVARIES EXPLODE**
*cough cough*
Heh… hehe… sorry bout that. I just get… a little over emotional about such a stunning specimen of man meat. *Sigh* WHY CAN’T ALL MEN BE SAM FUCKING WINCHESTER! I NEED HIM! o.O
…..Ok, I think I’ll stop now.
MY GOALS!
By lunchtime, 12pm (it’s now 10:30) I will have my two Chemistry IAs finished and sent to my godawful teacher (grr). One was due in yesterday- hence the “I hate Chem” post, I really was desperately trying to get that first one in on time (it’s only a first draft), but I couldn’t. Then I showed up for class and she completely, blatantly ignored me. She’s so childish! I’ve hated her since day 1 so it’s no surprise that she’s such a little bitch, but when she ignores me and gives the ONE OTHER KID IN MY CLASS DOING SL WITH ME extra advice about the IA, you can’t expect me to attempt to give her respect right? She lost my respect ages ago… anyway. I’ll hand them both in today and say the other one is late because I wanted to give them both in together. She can suck eggs. I know she won’t have them marked by Monday anyway.
Ciao for now! 🙂
06 Feb 2013
by caitiecakes
in Life Outside the Goal
Tags: 10 Things I Hate About You, 13 Going On 30, 27 Dresses, 6th Man, A Fish Called Wanda, A Walk to Remember, A-Level, Aaron Tveit, Across the Universe, Alone, Angry, Australia, Avoid, Bad Player, Basketball, Basketball Boots, Basketball Captain, Basketball Season, Basketball Team, BBC, BBC Version, Bed, Being a Girl, Big Deadlines, Big Spoon, Bigger Problems, Birthday, Body, Boiling Point, Books, Boots, Box of Tissues, Boyfriend, Boys, Bridesmaids, Bright Star, Build, Burp, Burping Competition, Campus, Can't Handle, Can't Wait, Caption, Care, Career, CAS, CAS Reflections, Casanova, Ceremony, Championship, Chicago, Chick Flicks, Chocolates, Cloud Atlas, Clubbing, Clueless, Clumsy, Co-Captain, Coach, Coach's Daughter, Competitive, Competitive School Sports, Competitive Sports, Compliment, Corpse, Correct, Crazy Stupid Love, Cried, Cry, Cry Baby, Cuddle, Deadlines, Death, Decision, Dedication, Defiantely Maybe, Dehydration, Delivery, Disappoint, Disney Princess, Disney Princess Movies, Don't Want, Drop Off, Dust, Emotional, Enchanted, End, Ever After, Exams, Exercise, Fall From Grace, Family, Family Members, Fantasia, Fart, Fat, Favourite, Feeling Sorry, Feeling Sorry For Myself, Final Buzzer, Finals, Finish, Freedom, Freezing Aircon, Friend's Birthday, Friends, Friendship, Gold, Gold Medal, Good Company, Grease, Great, Great Player, Growing Up, Guilty, Guts, Guys Only, Hairspray, Handle, Hard Work, Hate, He's Just Not That Into You, Heart, Heart Break, Height, High School, High School Musical, Homework, Hours, How to Deal, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, Hug, Hurt Feelings, IB, IB Exams, IB Life, IBFML, Inadequate, John Tucker Must Die, Juno, Just Like Heaven, Kick Down the Door, Knight and Day, Late Night, Leave, Left Alone, Les Mis, Licence to Wed, Life As We Know It, Life Long, Light Hearted, List, List Making, List of Chick Flicks, Little Spoon, Lonely, Loner, Loser, Loss, Lovely, Lunchtime, Made of Honour, Makes Me Happy, Masculine, Mature, Medal, Mesh, Minor Problem, Miserable, Miss, Months, Mood, Mood Swings, Moulin Rouge, Move Country, Movies, MRT, Mum, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, My Life in Ruins, Negativity, Netball, Netball Team, Never Been Kissed, No Boyfriends, No Time, No Wonder, Not Enough, Nothing, One Day, Ordeal, Organise, Out of Control, Outsider, Ovaries Explode, Party, Pathetic, People, Peter Pan, Pets, Philosophy, Philosophy IA, Pick Up, Pity Me, Pity Party, Plain Face, Plan, Please Reply, Pretty In Pink, Pride and Prejudice, Princesses, Procrastination, Protect, PS-I Love You, Pyjamas, Question, Redeem, Rejection, Right, Romeo + Juliet, Roses, Rules, Sabotage, School, School Campus, SEASAC, SEASAC Basketball, Self Delivery, Sensible, Sensitive, Short, Shouted, Sick, Single, Sister, Sixteen Candles, Skip, Skive, Sleep In, Slow, Sneak Off, Sneak Out, Sob, Spectacular, Sports, Sports Team, Stable, Stardust, Starting 5, Strictly Ballroom, Sucks To Be Single, Survive, Sweet, Sympathy, Team, Teammates, Teamwork, Tears, Terrible, The Accidental Husband, The Adjustment Bureau, The Back Up Plan, The Beatles, The Breakfast Club, The End, The Killers, The Lake House, The Leap Year, The Notebook, The Princess Bride, The Princess Diaries, The Tourist, The Ugly Truth, Throes of Heartbreak, Throw Myself Off The Roof, Time Left, TiMER, Tiring, Titanic, Tough Decisions, Trials, Try Hard, Twisted, University, Unstable, Upset, Useless, Valentines Day, Warning Label, Watch Chick Flicks, Weekend Team, Weird, What Happens in Vegas, When In Rome, Winners, Won, Work, Wound Up, Years
So that’s it. I’m done. I’ll never wear these boots again for my school (or ever again if I don’t play at Uni…). I’ll never be in another school championship. I’ll never get another gold medal for basketball. My high-school basketball career is officially over.
My participation in competitive sports at school is officially over.
I decided not to trial for the netball team. I cried, I felt guilty to my stomach and sad deep in my heart, but it’s the sensible decision. The right decision. The mature decision.
*sobs*
I hate knowing that this is it. School really is ending. I can’t wait to leave, but I’m not so sure I’m ready to leave everything I’ve worked so hard to build up over the last 14 years.
My mum will never coach me again, I will never play on the same team as my sister ever again. My co-captain will never be my co-captain ever again. They will never make me feel like an outsider or a try-hard ever again. They won’t make me feel inadequate Except they already have and do… They’re all on the netball team. I should be on the netball team. 66 girls showed up for the trials today. I could have been the 67th.
I spoke with the coaches at lunchtime and they were really upset (which is a lovely compliment that only broke my heart more). I want to be there playing alongside the girls I’ve played netball with for 12 years. I don’t care that I feel short and fat next to them, that they make me feel slow or clumsy. I just want to be there.
But they all do A-Levels and I do IB. They have exams in 4 months… mine are in 2.
I don’t know if I’ve faced loss at this level before. Family members, fellow students, pets, people moving country, sure I’ve dealt with that. But losing a “life-long career” of sport at my school? I’ll never be known as “the coach’s daughter” at my Uni. I’ll never be shouted at by coaches at schools here again. All the friends I’ve made through sports will be left in the dust when I move on to Australia.
What I think I hate most/ am most disappointed by, is myself. I used to be a great player. I kinda suck now. I went from being starting 5, to being 6th man. Sure I’m still on the team… but falling from grace (if you will) is a hard pill to swallow- even if my mother/coach doesn’t seem to think I care. I do care. I’ve always cared.
I started and finished tonight’s game. We won, yay and all that, but we didn’t feel like a team that just won SEASAC together, we didn’t mesh. It didn’t feel like a final, it didn’t feel like anything when I walked off that court as the final buzzer went.
I think that’s what’s most upsetting for me. The game wasn’t spectacular, I wasn’t spectacular, the teamwork wasn’t there, I felt useless. I’ll never be able to redeem myself as a player in my teammate’s eyes. Sure that’s a minor problem that shouldn’t phase me in comparison to all the other things I have on my plate, but I can’t help that it bugs me.
I want to cry about it, just get the damn emotions out, but I can’t seem to be able to turn on my waterworks- mind you they are ever so sensitive at the moment. I cry at everything (and what’s worse is my whole family is using it against me). I just want to have this whole high-school ordeal over with.
It feels so weird to put my boots away knowing I’ll never pick them up again unless I chose to play with mum’s weekend team… which just ended their latest season. Drats. Forgot that. So yeah, looks like that’s it for me basketball-wise.
You know how the other day I said I wasn’t feeling sorry for myself? Well, today I am. I feel so shitty about myself. On top of that my procrastination has led me to have 2 big deadlines tomorrow that I CAN get done tonight… it’ll just be a late night- which means tomorrow will be emotional and tiring.
I can’t handle being nice. I can’t handle my emotions sabotaging my mood. Sometimes I just want to be left the fuck alone, but then a friend walks by and doesn’t stop and I feel bone-achingly lonely at the rejection, but if they say hi, my boiling point goes through the roof- then I feel guilty. I hate being a girl. I hate being a girl. I hate being a girl.
Right now, I’m not stable enough to be at school and too wound up to be at home. I wonder what it’d be like to just skip school in the legit way. Head into school, hide somewhere ’til the drop-off hubbub dies down, then find a way to sneak of campus and ride the MRT all day until it’s pick up time. I know I don’t have the guts to do it. I know my parents don’t have the sympathy to let me off school for the day. I know my sister is too much a bitch to just keep her fat, pouty, bitch mouth shut.
On that note- I have planned my Valentine’s Day. It’ll be my 17th one alone (I had one wonderful Valentine’s back in the 9 months that I had a boyfriend when I was 16ish, he bought me chocolates and roses and everything, we watched ‘Fantasia’ :3). I know I could/ should hang out with my friends, to be honest I probably will end up doing the opposite of what I have planned, but here’s the plan anyway:
I will order chocolates to be delivered to my house on the 14th (or, more likely, I will buy some on the Wednesday). I will sleep in ’til 10am. Do work until 3pm. Get into pyjamas, get a box of tissues, a blanket I love, a pile of chick flicks and tissue boxes, then proceed to lock myself in the study and watch chick flicks until it’s officially Friday and I’ve “survived” that sucks-to-be-single day.
I really have no desire to spend Valentine’s with friends, bitching about boys or couples or whatever. I have no desire to organise anything, I just want to lie by myself, the single soul I am, and cry at my own pathetic need to hold to my “rules” (such as no boyfriends before Uni). I want to cry and laugh and not worry about burping or farting (I’m only human and yes there are a very privileged few that have heard the latter, the former however, is not an irregular occurrence amongst my group. We have burping competitions- I can’t even win those :/).
My current list of “To Watch”s are:
- He’s Just Not That Into You (fave fave fave fave fave)
- My Big Fat Greek Wedding (all time fave)
- My Life in Ruins
- Chicago
- Clueless
- The Proposal
- Romeo + Juliet (if I’m not already on the brink of throwing myself off the roof by this point- don’t get me started on Titanic- I ain’t touching that shit… btw- by “shit” I mean: movie-that-I-will-probably-cry-myself-to-death-watching-then-resurrect-myself-so-that-I-can-jump-off-the-tallest-building-in-Singapore-before-swallowing-bleach yeah. Those kinda feels.)
- Moulin Rouge
- The Tourist (maybe…)
- Pretty in Pink
- Fantasia 1
- Fantasia 2
- High School Musical (don’t be dissin’)
- Hairspray
- Bridesmaids
- 27 Dresses
- The Adjustment Bureau
- Across the Universe
- Cry Baby
- A Walk to Remember
- Juno
- Knight and Day
- Never Been Kissed
- EVERY DISNEY PRINCESS MOVIE EVER
- 10 Things I Hate About You
- 13 Going On 30
- Made of Honour
- The Leap Year (love love love love love)
- The Notebook (again, if I want to die…)
- Grease
- How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
- Crazy, Stupid, Love
- What Happens in Vegas
- The Killers
- Stardust
- John Tucker Must Die
- The Princess Diaries (all)
- Life As We Know It
- The Back Up Plan
- The Ugly Truth
- Definately, Maybe
- The Accidental Husband
- The Lake House
- The Breakfast Club
- Strictly Ballroom
- The Princess Bride
- (One Day)
- (Bright Star)
- Pride and Prejudice (BBC VERSION- aka: the real version)
- Ever After
- Enchanted (some may not count this as Disney Princess…)
- (Something Borrowed)
- When in Rome
- How to Deal (pretty much all the Mandy Moore movies, Licence to Wed!!!!- all except Because I Said So, which was terrible haha)
- Just Like Heaven
- TiMER
- PS- I Love You (if I want to die)
- (Sixteen Candles)
- CLOUD ATLAS
- Peter Pan
- A Fish Called Wanda
- (Casanova)
- Les Mis (grudgingly… only because Aaron Tveit *ovaries explode*)
Not enough hours in the day I know. The list is in no particular order and needless to say all (well most, lets say 98%) made me cry. Brackets around the film indicate that I haven’t actually seen the film yet.
Yeah. A lot of movies. Lots of tears. I’ll probably die of dehydration from crying so much, then they’d have to kick the door down days later to find my body twisted in the throes of heartbreak and perfectly preserved in the freezing aircon. The ceremony will be short and sweet and people will go “look at that plain face, no wonder she didn’t have a boyfriend”. Yeah. What a way to go, huh?
OR
I could keep my shit together and go party it up at the clubs with my friends because one of them is born on Valentines.
*Sigh*
Tough decisions.
To be honest, making that list made me very, very happy. I don’t know why, I was perfectly miserable at the start of this post, but now I’m quite light-hearted. I guess at the end of the day: I’m a simple soul, I don’t need much to impress me or keep me happy. Just books and good company (that knows when to fuck off and when to cuddle me). For once I want to be the little spoon.
I told my friend that today. She said: “I wonder if guys ever feel like that?”
Good point. So I stick it to all you guys out there that have managed to read this far- do you ever want to be the little spoon? Or is it a masculine-protective thing to be the big spoon?
I know because of my height I always, ALWAYS, am the “protective” cuddler if my friends need a hug.
Again- my school friends reading this, my emotions are frigging out of control, please don’t bring this up at school (I’m kind of hoping this goes without saying so that I don’t have to continually put this warning label at the end..) for all I know I could be happy as Larry tomorrow and feeling guilty for posting such negativity… who knows. I sure as hell don’t.
Anyway, off to CAS and Philosophy. Then bed (if there’s any time left…).